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Query: I am attracted to my wife’s elder sister. She is very beautiful and confident but at the same time, I love my wife as well. How can I stop myself from ruining relationships from both sides?Response by Aashmeen Munjaal: Being…

Query: I caught my date kissing another woman right before our first meeting. I am not sure if we should continue seeing each other or not. We had just talked over phone calls and text messages before meeting each other. Technically, he…

Query: My boyfriend cheated on me once with another girl and even though I have forgiven him, I feel disturbed from within. He has tried to make it up to me in the best way possible and all this is making it harder for me to break up with…

Query: My mother-in-law has been pestering me to conceive a baby, even if I’m not mentally ready. She even turns my husband against me when I refuse to get pregnant right now. I feel very alone sometimes as there is no one to support me in…

Query: My husband and I live like roommates in a house. Even though we had a love marriage and have a son together, we do not feel like a married couple. He never has sex with me and I get really anxious and frustrated sometimes. I feel…

Query: My husband pushed me to start my business and I got compliments from all around about how lucky I am to have a supportive husband like him. But now that my business has picked up and I am invited to parties to network, he gets very…

Query: My swimming coach tries to flirt with me and I feel like flirting back every time he tries to make advances. I think I like him but I’m already married. What should I do? Response by Aashmeen Munjaal: It is important for you to…

Query: My wife is a narcissist. She constantly criticizes my family members and threatens to spread bad word about the family when I ask her to calm down. Her father is a powerful man so it’s very scary for me to take any action. I’m in…

Query: My wife is very irresponsible and lazy. Every time I ask for her help regarding some work, she just yells at me and threatens to call her brother (who is very mighty and scary). I feel trapped in such a marriage, and I can’t even…

Query: My 13 year old daughter feels extremely jealous of her peers. She is constantly bickering and comparing herself to them. I have tried to counsel her but she feels extremely insecure all the time and it affects her performance too.…