His story/Her story: “My husband is a workaholic and I feel very lonely in this marriage.” | The Times of India

AiR Atman in Ravi

Spiritual Leader and Founder of AiR Institute of Realization and AiR center of Enlightenment

For Him: If your wife is crying because you are busy with your work and she has started to think that you are not interested in her or this marriage anymore, then you are possibly facing a threat of the breakdown of your marriage.

You should not let a surprise destroy your relationship or your marriage. A healthy marriage is all about good communication. There are no secrets in a marriage. It is a relationship of transparency. What is the use of giving such a surprise if it means to give so much pain initially and damaging your relationship? If you have a dream of surprising her with an overseas trip, then surprise her with your plan and both of you can work towards it together, rather than delaying sharing your plan.

Remember, your wife doesn’t understand what you are doing. So, you have to talk to her, spend time with her and communicate your love, care, and concern to her. It is your responsibility to make your wife feel loved and not let her feel lonely in marriage. Therefore, it is time for you to pause what you are doing, be transparent with her, share everything, and save your marriage from being doomed.