Women share what it’s like to be single in their 30s – Times of India

Some women realise the importance of not settling for less and only getting what they deserve. Even if this means waiting for the right person for years. Some people are left being singledue to circumstances while some are single by choice. Well, it is quite interesting to know what goes on in the minds of women who have been single in their 30s and are also quite happy to be so.Let’s see what these 5 women have to share about what it’s like to be single.
Focusing on career has been my priority
“Being single in my 30s is both liberating and challenging. On one hand, I have the freedom to focus on my career, pursue my passions, and travel without any commitments. But on the other hand, societal pressures and expectations can be overwhelming. People constantly ask why I’m not married or have children yet, as if my worth is defined by my relationship status. It can be frustrating, but I’ve learned to embrace my independence and prioritize my own happiness.”
Radhika, 34 years
Dating in your 30s is a rollercoaster ride
“Navigating the dating scene in my 30s has been a rollercoaster ride. I’ve had my fair share of disappointments and heartbreaks, but I’ve also experienced deep connections and personal growth. Dating apps have opened up new possibilities, but they can also be exhausting and disheartening at times. I’ve learned to be patient, trust my instincts, and not settle for anything less than what I deserve. Being single has allowed me to discover my own strengths and pursue my passions without compromise.”
Pratishtha, 36 years
Finding self-love in myself and my close ones
“Being single in my 30s has given me the opportunity to truly know and love myself. I’ve taken the time to heal from past relationships, focus on personal growth, and prioritise self-care. While there are moments of loneliness, I have built a strong support network of friends and family who uplift and inspire me. I have realised that being single doesn’t mean I’m incomplete; it means I have the freedom to explore and embrace my own individuality.”
Shrishti, 32 years
Never settling for less
“In my 30s, I’ve embraced the idea that I don’t need a partner to be happy and fulfilled. I have focused on building a fulfilling career, nurturing my hobbies, and cultivating meaningful friendships. Sure, there are times when I crave companionship and wonder if I’ll find love, but I refuse to settle for anything less than a genuine connection.”
Nadia, 33 years
Chances to find your true, authentic self
“It has been an empowering experience. I’ve had the chance to explore my own desires, dreams, and boundaries without compromise. While societal expectations sometimes make me question my choices, I’ve learned to trust my instincts and stay true to myself. I’ve embraced solo adventures, personal growth, and self-reflection. Being single doesn’t define my worth; it’s simply a chapter of my life that has allowed me to discover my own strength and resilience.”
Varsha, 37 years